Crazy what time we live in. Men who actually want women to have had experience before and vice versa? How is that an indicator that something is wrong with them?
What if they just had opportunities but never took them because they wanted to wait? Or because they just didn't feel ready? I think some of you guys are just paranoid that being their first won't work out well.
Because the vast majority of 30+ virgins aren't saving themselves for religious reasons, this isn't 1800. Most 30+ virgins are the way they are because they're unable to find someone to have sex with, or they're the type that's so self pitying and self hating they won't even bother to try because they think they'll fail
How would you even know that's the majority? Seems like a vocal minority at best to me. What if they aren't really waiting? What if they do desire it sometimes, but it's just not the main priority in their life? That doesn't mean there's something wrong with them. Doesn't mean they're self pitying and hating. That's no reason to give up on what could be a good person.
I could understand if women are wary of being with a virgin male. They've been brainwashed by the media and stereotypes. So of course they'll be hesitant, but how could a man rule out the idea of having children with a virgin woman? You should want to be the first and only guy. The first and only person to build a life with her.
You don't need to find a virgin woman, but if you do, why throw that away? What if she promises to be loyal, caring and to take care of your kids? What if she genuinely likes you? That's great.
How many adults do you know in this day and age who are voluntarily saving themselves for marriage? I'm going to guess the answer is "not many", assuming you live in a first world country ---
No one triggers the Trumpanzees quite like you do - Bullet_Wing Conservatism is a plague on society. Formerly known as The_Great_Geno.