Only social media I use is under my user name here so I can talk as openly as I like
That is still not okay depending on what kind of work you go into.
There are somewhat easy ways to determine not only what email addresses you are using for usernames across the web, and after determining usernames, scouring the web for other instances. I do a lot of online investigation work for some clients and we find all kinds of things that people think they've kept hidden.
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Losing an argument? Ends it with but...but...Hillary and her emails!