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TopicI'm so sick of living with my family
Twin3Turbo
09/12/17 11:46:35 AM
#43:


Just to add to what I said earlier since I'm at work and have time because the servers are down due to Hurricane Irma, here are a few other things TC

You mentioned a lot of different reasons in your latest post as to whats stressing you out about getting a job, when most of that stuff itself doesn't even apply to the first step which is getting a job. Lets go through all of them. Here, I'll create a very simple, starting out bootstrap plan for you. Yeah bootstrapping gets a bad rap on here but sometimes it's the only way if you want to better your situation.

Housing - this is already covered for you. No need to even worry about this right now at all when you already have a stable living situation. No excuses

Transportation - as stated earlier, try your best to find somewhere nearby that you can walk to 5 days a week. I walked to work from junior year of high school til I finished my 4th year of college. It can be done. You know the area and businesses around you and you definitely know how to get on the internet and find local business to apply to. No excuses

Money Management - Dude, don't worry about money management until you actually have money to manage. Also, it's not hard. Here let me solve this problem for you. Once you've got your job, go to the bank and open a checking account and a savings account. Give your new employer the information to direct deposit your money into this new account. You've been doing just fine without personal money apparently so your expenses should assumptively still be low and therefore you should be able to save a pretty large chunk if not damn near all of it, especially since you wont have to pay transportation costs. You shouldn't really even much need to touch this money so there really isn't much "management" to be done. There I just solved your money management problem. No excuses.

Applying - Applying at jobs is pretty much the ONLY thing you need to be worried about right now. I pretty much already gave you a plan here in my previous post. Follow that and try to get as many interviews as you possibly can and practice common questions beforehand. If necessary, get two jobs since you've obviously got plenty of time. There's no reason to not be working 40 hours minimum. No excuses

There, that is a simple bootstrap plan for you to get you started with being an adult. As Asherlee stated before, we get it, it can feel like a lot but part of being an adult is learning how to manage it. The good thing is that all of this doesn't have to be done at once. It can be done over time. Just do a few things a day.

Hopefully all of this doesn't get ignored although I'm sure there is a very high likelihood of that. Maybe someone else will see it and be inspired, I dunno. Either way, take it or leave it. No excuses.
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