You don't get that it's not just the job, everything surrounding it is stressful and overwhelming for me. Including money management (banking), housing, applying, transportation (I can't drive) etc.
It's funny, I was just reading something yesterday completely unrelated but the content applies here. It mentioned that people won't or are to scared to start something new because they view it all as one big giant thing that they have to do, instead of breaking it down into manageable steps. And the way you just phrased this pretty much confirms that that's exactly how you are seeing it.
So that's what you need to do, stop viewing getting a job as this big gigantic monster that needs to be handled all at once. Do it in steps. Hell, step one could be something as simple as locating potential work places that are nearby to you that you could walk to. Step two could be going in and filling out applications. Step 3 could be researching how to interview properly and step 4 could be practicing common interview questions etc.
Stop viewing it as this huge 20 headed monster that needs to be slayed all at once.
seriously good advice
take it tc if you really want to turn things around ---