LogFAQs > #886197464

Girls never forget. Remember that. Their memories are good cause the experiences we may brush off, to them cuts deep and hurts emotionally. so anything and usually everything you did to get where the relationship/marriage is now is from the sum of "what you did." You ask what did you do and where this all coming from and she tells you from her point of view.

That being said... how do you fight? As previously mentioned, do you fight and argue to win or to acknowledge her issue? Are you dismissing her accounts of what happened and sorta bullying your point? Is all you both do in the marriage met with confrontation? Even the smallest issues get into arguement. Why? Is she constantly trying to prove herself to you?

I agree with the others here. Do the marriage right and exhaust all alternatives and options before you end your marriage. You both need to seek counseling for your marriage. A professional counselor can be the mediator to your problems until you both can work it all out on your own.

So part of solving any problem is acknowledge the problem. From there you can make progressive steps to identify, process, monitor, and maintain whatever issue the marriage experiences. Its better to work as a team than solo it. Marriage is a team. Trust that you both want whats best for yout marriage.
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