LogFAQs > #886195042

Trust is a very important part of marriage. Why not try to work things out instead of just giving up? When you say "fighting", what does that mean? When you have disagreements, how do you go about resolving them?

That's the thing, too many couples fight to win, and are far too selfish. Selfishness is THE ONLY reason that marriages end. So don't fight to win. Fight for resolution. Be the first to admit where you were wrong. Don't expect apologies. Forgive her even if she doesn't apologize. Put yourself in her shoes, and try to understand why she does what she does.

I've been married for 3 years, and my wife and I are still in honeymoon phase. We probably will be our entire lives. It's not that we don't have arguments and disagreements, it's just that we know how to quickly resolve issues we have without them getting out of hand. We are open and honest, and we both trust each other completely.

I don't expect TC to absorb or follow any of this. Few people accept the reality, that they're just too selfish to have a happy long-term romantic relationship. Until you consider that and change it, you're not going to do well in the long run.
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