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| Topic | How should I ask out this cute cashier? :3 |
| Sturm_the_Dark 07/18/17 5:34:04 AM #50: | SmokeMassTree posted... Didn't read the entire topic Look, I've not had that much success with asking girls out, but how you do it is really not that hard. If you just compliment her and ask her out for a date (coffee, drinks, whatever), or go for her number if you feel confident enough, that's all you can do. If she says no then you did nothing wrong. You don't need to spend 90 mins writing a letter confessing your feelings...she's going to be totally freaked out. Imagine a random girl came up to you and did the same, whom you hardly know. That said, don't take the advice of other guys here who worry about all possible circumstances and make all possible excuses. I've done that before, and you just end up not asking out anyone. Better to approach more people and make mistakes than never approach anyone. You learn from the mistakes, and there's a chance they will say yes anyway. It's great that you managed to overcome your fear of approaching her, and although you probably made a mistake, you'll learn from it and will get it right next time. Sometimes it's right for the circumstances to put you off, but it should be rare. Whenever I'm trying to make excuses, I justify it to myself as best as possible, and if it doesn't add up (it usually doesn't) I go for it. In my experience (and I've done both), it's much more appropriate to ask, "I'd like to take you out on a date" when you have strong feelings for someone than confessing everything. Then see how the date goes. --- "Love is love is love is love is love, and love cannot be killed or swept aside." - In memory of the victims of the Orlando mass shooting ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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