They're mostly 30s and 40s and 50s women in this group, and yep, you guessed it, every god damn one of them has at least one kid, if not multiple. Whenever I see a good looking girl, I go, "oh, she's cute, alright, time to go see what her kids look like", and then I visit her page and it's covered in child pics.
But anyway, that wouldn't be so bad if they weren't such judgemental people. God help you if you let if be known that you don't like kids and would probably not date a single mother. It's just nuts, man. They unironically ask "why would a woman having kids be less desirable?" As if a potential guy wouldn't be bringing on years and years of future expense, debt, work, stress and heartache by stepping in to be a father. They literally can't even fathom it from a guy's point of view.
I can understand not wanting to date someone with children. The baggage that comes with it plus the dude might still be around which means more crap.
Hah! It's funny you used the word "baggage". That was exactly the word that set one of these women off. They don't consider kids to be baggage and feel like that's a negative way to view them. And everyone except maybe one or two people agreed.
No I don't mean the kids being baggage, I'm taking about the extra issues and negativity. ---