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Topic	i dated a girl with BPD for 2 years, ask me anything
Coolppl Owns 04/11/17 9:47:14 AM #31:	How did she treat you like a king? -roped me in with the best sex I ever had at the time -boosted my ego with words -bought me gifts often (before I realized she was actually broke AF) she was initially very nice to me, but arguments with her would almost always end up being an all out war BoobsAreMurder posted... One of my friends mom has BPD and he has a lot of problems including trying to make me feel like I've used him somehow. Could the apple fall far from the tree? if his mom has it it's very likely that he has it too Ki_cat_ posted... My partner was/is diagnosed with BPD. I've dated them close to a year, known them for close to 2 years now. They have some anxiety issues but they're fully aware of it and really do try. She knows when she's being a bitch to people and 9/10 times it is valid. Even though she's been diagnosed, she doesn't really have any major red flags. Doesn't try to guilt me into anything, manipulate etc...If I want to break up I'm sure she'd be hurt and stuff but for the most part, she's really respectful. Only had a few partners before me. Drunk a bit but never did anything too detrimental. I'm not really worried overall. sounds like she has it under control. it's when it's compounded with suicidal tendencies/depression that it really gets dangerous Back_Stabbath posted... thinking of jumping into this... situation with a girl i've been talking to online for over a year. i can handle mood swings and what-have-you, but the cheating thing is what worries me.. this girl is put off sex entirely due to a whole other bag of cats, so I don't think it should be an issue but... idk, CE... idk. i'm biased, but it's just not worth it imo Darkman124 posted... Coolppl Owns posted... can't say you didn't warn me it's always hardest to see when you're so close to it. but i knew you'd figure it out in your own time. though i figured around the "let's have a one-way open relationship so you don't leave me" part you'd see the problem she actually offered to let me sleep with other people eventually, but it didn't feel right and by then I didn't want to be with her anymore. --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:876975584] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote> How did she treat you like a king? -roped me in with the best sex I ever had at the time -boosted my ego with words -bought me gifts often (before I realized she was actually broke AF) she was initially very nice to me, but arguments with her would almost always end up being an all out war <cite>BoobsAreMurder posted...</cite> <quote>One of my friends mom has BPD and he has a lot of problems including trying to make me feel like I've used him somehow. Could the apple fall far from the tree?</quote> if his mom has it it's very likely that he has it too <cite>Ki_cat_ posted...</cite> <quote>My partner was/is diagnosed with BPD. I've dated them close to a year, known them for close to 2 years now. They have some anxiety issues but they're fully aware of it and really do try. She knows when she's being a bitch to people and 9/10 times it is valid. Even though she's been diagnosed, she doesn't really have any major red flags. Doesn't try to guilt me into anything, manipulate etc...If I want to break up I'm sure she'd be hurt and stuff but for the most part, she's really respectful. Only had a few partners before me. Drunk a bit but never did anything too detrimental. I'm not really worried overall.</quote> sounds like she has it under control. it's when it's compounded with suicidal tendencies/depression that it really gets dangerous <cite>Back_Stabbath posted...</cite> <quote>thinking of jumping into this... situation with a girl i've been talking to online for over a year. i can handle mood swings and what-have-you, but the cheating thing is what worries me.. this girl is put off sex entirely due to a whole other bag of cats, so I don't think it should be an issue but... idk, CE... idk.</quote> i'm biased, but it's just not worth it imo <cite>Darkman124 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote> can't say you didn't warn me</quote> it's always hardest to see when you're so close to it. but i knew you'd figure it out in your own time. though i figured around the "let's have a one-way open relationship so you don't leave me" part you'd see the problem</quote> she actually offered to let me sleep with other people eventually, but it didn't feel right and by then I didn't want to be with her anymore. --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-=</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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