Well at least there's nothing slutty (unless "taking the word back" and using it positively) about sex on a first date. I mean, considering that's something we all appreciate, I don't think we should discourage it with negative connotation.
But I can understand the situation you're in, but yeah it's not great to be involved in any way with somebody you don't think highly of. Good luck there.
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