I spoiled myself to the books awhile ago just to avoid getting spoiled by accident and I can say that it is a dick move to even do that. Like, spoilers on stuff like this is just pretty sacred. Like the fact you are arguing is ridiculous. Just don't speak anymore. You should have apologized and that should have been the end of it, your ego being so big that you feel the need to defend actions everyone is calling foul on is amazing.
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Sir Chris
The Cult of Personality.