Okay, I won't do it then.
She's probably going to want to get Doordash food to which I'll tell her no. She still owes me a favor from a bet I won to which I'm going to tell her not to bother anymore with. Also going to not pick up any shifts where she's working and minimize any overlap otherwise.
Guess I'll just have to keep this shit held, hope I don't regret it.
Arcanine2009 posted... You should really think this through.
Does she enjoy your company?
Does she like you back?
Do you both work in the same department?
Normally I don't think it's a good idea to date a coworker, especially if they are in the same dept and/or you don't know if they like you back.
Just make it as awkwardless as you can, because you really have to think about the future and that you will be seeing her everyday. Not to mention workplace gossip. Be as discreet as possible
If you really like her, better way to show you are interested is ask is if she wants to hang out sometime. Less awkward and she likely gets the hint. If she makes an excuse, move on. If she says she is busy but will get back to you, it's a good sign. And if course if she agrees, then it's better.
Absolutely don't spill your guts to a woman ever, unless you have some serious history and connection. That scares people. Especially if it's long winded. Life isn't like the movies.
I might just do this instead though.
- I think so
- Probably did at one point but I'm socially awkward and probably doesn't anymore
- Yes, for around two years now