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And if she met someone else, my way would work better than continuing to reach out a fifth time. But you see what I did? I listed a theory that has just as much merit as the New Years theory. And guess what? Theres a shitload of other reasons that have equally as much possibilities. Im not saying yours or my theory is right, but that they are 2 out of a million possible reasons that are equally likely/unlikely. So lets not apologize for something we have absolutely no 0 proof is the actual reason.

You know whats 100 percent certain though? Him being ghosted after reaching out multiple times. Best way to react to being ghosted is to let the ghoster be. Theyll come back when theyre ready or whatever stood in the way is gone

I only believe it is NYE because of what he said and just reiterated in 321. So, no not certain, just an educated guess. He should talk to her in person (I wouldn't text again) and tease out if that's what it is and then apologize if needed. I am good at doing that in person, but I know not everyone is.

The ghosting part, yeah. That bugs me a lot. But I wonder how much she has actually brought up about him neglecting her, as it apparently has come up before. This suggests it might be more than a FwB in her head and now she is questioning everything. But ghosting is still lame, as you said, so I am struggling with this one.

My thoughts are that they are both likely at fault, possibly not compatible or possibly both need to do some learning. Sorry TC, not trying to talk bad about you! Most of us have been there when young.

I also question that ghosters come around later. Seems like it could happen but doesn't seem anywhere near certain.

Anyway, I think he knows our opinions here. I am done arguing. For now at least, no promises. :)