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[somebody] posted...

And you know what? Even if on the off chance, that shes upset because no New Years plans were made(never said it was impossible), ignoring three texts and not really being present for a week is lame.

stop breaking your necks about stuff you have no proof about. If this girls pissed at you, then a little time and space will bring her around, and you can proceed to charm her again

And as I have said before these are 2 different philosophies, both of which can potentially work. The question is what kind of person does TC want to be. I prefer the open and honest route versus trying to simply control the situation and force them into complying. Lessons learned from marriage (and subsequent divorce) and more successful interactions since.

I do agree about the "lame" part though. My red flags are still there, but if TC wants to give this a shot...