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Can yall stop with this New Years theory that really has no merit? Shes not his GF. He really owes her no NYE plans even thought it would be nice if you did hang cause youre at least FWB. They hang and fuck, free to really do whatever. All she did was ask him what he was doing for NYE? I asked a few girls the same question even though I didnt have any intention of hanging with them that night. Was just curious about her plans. Her behavior doesnt scream heyyyy Im asking you what youre doing this night because I want you to hang out with me for NYE or Ill ignore you.

You guys are thinking too much about the why about one potential theory(thats really unlikely)out of an infinite number of reasons why she stopped texting you. its making you blame yourself because on CE, obviously youmust have done something to upset her. Now you must constantly go beyond a 50/50 relationship to appease someone based on some made up theory that people love to come up with, because we must always try to blame ourselves when someone pulls away.

Just let her be. Stop trying to figure out the why dude. Its driving you and people in this thread into a frenzy. You will never know until she tells you and even then, they might not always tell you the truth. We really need to stop trying to blame ourselves for shit we have no idea about.

Based on what TC said, this might be more than FwB, as she has gotten on him before for neglecting her, so that suggests she might want this to be a relationship. She might be waiting for him to say something. Yes, I am saying might here a lot because I am not in this relationship. But if that is what is happening, then he should say something. If he is wrong, so what? Seems in a bad place right now anyway.

And if she cut off communication right when he said he was hanging out with friends on NYE? C'mon.

I am not a typical CE person. I am really good at relationships.