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Topic	Girl I was seeing the last few months just started flat out ghosting me.
Doom_Art 01/03/22 9:08:53 AM #23:	Number090684 posted... Nah, it's something or someone else. A girl who legitimately cares about you and thinks you're a good person / friend, but doesn't want to be commited to you for whatever reasons wouldn't start ghosting you for no reason. If she actually valued you and you guys ended things on good terms she'd at least want to stay friends. The only reason I'm kinda baffled is the aforementioned friendship and the fact that she apparently had been trying to make me and her happen for like a few years now. It's totally possible she just doesn't care about me or value me, I just have a hard time wrapping my head around having such a 180 in opinion so relatively quickly. She had also made reference before about the fact that she tends to have a hard time confronting heavy emotional stuff head on, but always will just "eventually when I feel I'm ready and on my terms" which in hindsight should've been a big red flag lol Shablagoo posted... Doesnt have anything to do with your worth, peoples lives are just complicated. The part that keeps getting me is then just say that to me? Like she knows me pretty well even outside of the relationship she should know I'd have been able to handle something like "Hey I'm in a weird place rn let's hold off on chatting or contact for a bit" --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:961432099] in Girl I was... [t:79837689]...</cite> <quote>Number090684 posted... </cite> <quote>Nah, it's something or someone else. A girl who legitimately cares about you and thinks you're a good person / friend, but doesn't want to be commited to you for whatever reasons wouldn't start ghosting you for no reason. If she actually valued you and you guys ended things on good terms she'd at least want to stay friends.</quote>The only reason I'm kinda baffled is the aforementioned friendship and the fact that she apparently had been trying to make me and her happen for like a few years now. It's totally possible she just doesn't care about me or value me, I just have a hard time wrapping my head around having such a 180 in opinion so relatively quickly. She had also made reference before about the fact that she tends to have a hard time confronting heavy emotional stuff head on, but always will just "eventually when I feel I'm ready and on my terms" which in hindsight should've been a big red flag lol Shablagoo posted... </cite> <quote>Doesnt have anything to do with your worth, peoples lives are just complicated.</quote>The part that keeps getting me is then just say that to me? Like she knows me pretty well even outside of the relationship she should know I'd have been able to handle something like "Hey I'm in a weird place rn let's hold off on chatting or contact for a bit" --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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