LogFAQs > #961426503

It could have been worded better but theyre not wrong, you have to engage with people youre attracted to in order to have a chance to become intimate. The thing is youre not going to get rejected every time and the time you dont youre gonna forgot about all the times you were. Youve also just gotta trust that if someone isnt into you, theyre not trying to hurt your feelings and theyre not going to be mean about telling you unless theyre an asshole then its kinda like bullet dodged.

Thats exactly what a therapist is going to suggest, is that you find the most comfortable way to approach and engage strangers in conversation. Thats why hobby and interest groups are so strong too, it turns strangers into acquaintances with shared interests. It also sounds like youre really focused in on being single, but you should be open to forming new friendships as well, when you form a connection with someone you get access to their connections. Your possibilities expand exponentially once you get the ball rolling.