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| Topic | Just found out my gf ad her ex take her to her Xmas get together. |
| Fony 12/26/21 3:24:11 PM #149: | STEROLIZER posted... Red Flags is what is wrong with someone else. Being a catalyst is whats wrong with yourself. The two are not mutually exclusive. Brother, these guys do not take responsibility for their contribution to shitty relationships. How can you just write off a woman as bad and move on yet don't examine how you allowed the thing to spiral to this or allowed her to be your woman period? If she is bad, you're making bad picks! We are not born with our dick in some girl. We are not born with a partner. We CHOOSE them. We show them what is allowed by our actions. Problem is these guys don't do what they need to do to give themselves GOOD options to choose from. I bet anything that OP's woman has shown signs of regretting losing her ex or signs of liking him or other men, to his face. I guarantee that. The fact is this, these guys have a deeper loneliness pool and a deeper need for validation pool than their self respect or reasoning pools. OP isn't BAD and his woman is bad, but he allowed this to happen. --- It's not the end of the world, but we can see it from here. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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