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JKwaffle posted...

People can change, yes. But saying "just go on some dates!" really diminishes the struggle that it can take to change.

I've spent YEARS fighting my social anxiety to make friends, have relationships, etc. And I've for sure grown and changed a lot, and overall been pretty successful I'd say. But it's a constant battle, and there are still days sometimes where my anxiety acts up so bad I don't even want to go into a store for groceries cause I might have to talk to someone.

Im not diminishing any struggles. Youre taking it personally for some reason. If you dont like some aspect of yourself, try something new. Its that simple.

saying to go on dates isnt saying that its easy to get a girlfriend if youve been single for a while. Its literally just saying put yourself out there and see what happens.