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Topic	12 Signs You're Dating a Man Child
LinkPizza 11/21/21 4:45:34 PM #136:	ForsakenHermit posted... People have flaws and trying to seek out a real life mary or marty stu is a terrible idea. Any healthy relationship will have two partners who realize that the other one has blindspots and love each other anyway even if they each have a few traits that bug each other. It was something like, "Perfect love isn't about having a partner with no flaws, but about accepting their flaws and looking beyond their imperfections." There was another shorter way I once saw, but can't remember it exactly. But that's basically the gist of it... Haha... Punished_Blinx posted... Combine this with a sloppy and lazy lifestyle you're focusing on the wrong thing here. It's not about video games. It's about the whole picture. But one part of my post was about video games specifically... Hence why i talked about it when you mentioned more about that part... But it is one of the things she's complaining about... Punished_Blinx posted... So she looks at those signs and see what applies to her to see if it is indeed as bad as she says. Having valid reasons for negative behavior doesn't mean it's worth tolerating in a relationship. If you can't take care of yourself properly why should someone else? I wouldn't just look at the signs and decide. If anything, she should look past just the signs, and the reasons for them. That would be a better solution, I would think. Or see if something actually changed. Like he obviously did laundry before they met. So did he stop because she's there? Or did he wait longer before she came, but she does it more frequently? Did his house have clothes on the floor the first time, or only after you started hanging out there more? Or did he use to gather them all up when it was time for laundry? The problem here is that we only get a vague understanding of them and their problems. And we don't know enough about them... And having valid reasons kind of does make it so it's possible to tolerate them. It can be a deal breaker for some, but not for all... It depends on the person... I mean, most people aren't going to find someone with no flaws. Maybe most of their partners will have more flaws. Who knows. But instead of just looking at the signs, maybe look for the reasons. And if you find the reason, you may even find a solution... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:960216399] in 12 Signs Y... [t:79771060]...</cite> <quote>ForsakenHermit posted...</cite> <quote>People have flaws and trying to seek out a real life mary or marty stu is a terrible idea. Any healthy relationship will have two partners who realize that the other one has blindspots and love each other anyway even if they each have a few traits that bug each other.</quote> It was something like, "Perfect love isn't about having a partner with no flaws, but about accepting their flaws and looking beyond their imperfections." There was another shorter way I once saw, but can't remember it exactly. But that's basically the gist of it... Haha... Punished_Blinx posted...</cite> <quote>Combine this with a sloppy and lazy lifestyle you're focusing on the wrong thing here. It's not about video games.</quote> It's about the whole picture. But one part of my post was about video games specifically... Hence why i talked about it when you mentioned more about that part... But it is one of the things she's complaining about... Punished_Blinx posted...</cite> <quote>So she looks at those signs and see what applies to her to see if it is indeed as bad as she says. Having valid reasons for negative behavior doesn't mean it's worth tolerating in a relationship. If you can't take care of yourself properly why should someone else?</quote> I wouldn't just look at the signs and decide. If anything, she should look past just the signs, and the reasons for them. That would be a better solution, I would think. Or see if something actually changed. Like he obviously did laundry before they met. So did he stop because she's there? Or did he wait longer before she came, but she does it more frequently? Did his house have clothes on the floor the first time, or only after you started hanging out there more? Or did he use to gather them all up when it was time for laundry? The problem here is that we only get a vague understanding of them and their problems. And we don't know enough about them... And having valid reasons kind of does make it so it's possible to tolerate them. It can be a deal breaker for some, but not for all... It depends on the person... I mean, most people aren't going to find someone with no flaws. Maybe most of their partners will have more flaws. Who knows. But instead of just looking at the signs, maybe look for the reasons. And if you find the reason, you may even find a solution... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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