LogFAQs > #959900947

TC, some advice here... don't throw out ultimatums to strangers after just three weeks. This is a pretty big red flag to a lot of people; you're already trying to control someone's behavior before you've even remotely earned the respect to do so.

Not to mention, ultimatums very rarely ever work out well in relationships. The people who tend to pull the "do x or we're through!" variations of dialogue tend to have either controlling or manipulative personalities. Neither of which is something you generally consider "desirable".