So in a sub-Dom relationship, its expected that Dom takes care of the sub still. That they are rewarded for good behavior and the sweetness of the rewards counters the punishments and treatments even though the person can be into either side (pain/pleasure). The Dom is a protector and enforcer, a strong leader and that the sub never quite knows whats coming next is where much of the excitement comes from. so in a findomme-pay pig relationship, it is sexually rewarding for the sub to have the loss of power, the fear that this person could ruin him or demand all he can give. The money makes it vulnerable, its humiliating to just hand the money you worked for but he also can imagine its going towards pleasing the Dom, so each good gift is a reward. Just like in a normal Dom/sub relationship (if they actually do it as a relationship rather than the man just having a kink and handing out money), there is the aspect that they want to take care of each other. The Dom may give an allowance to the sub (with the subs) own money, etc. Theres the risk of her going off the rails, but if a domme did that, its like a one time payday vs a cow to milk, and if you get a reputation for being abusive its not going to help you further down the line. I suppose online you could be more abusive without repercussions but also many stem from camsites where you still have a relevant following that can be told
*edit was fixing the autocorrect from im to in, I am not in one
good post, its sexy when u empty ur bank account to please a girl & she spits in ur face & asks for more