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Im in a similar situation, this new girl started in our classroom (as staff, we are all TAs) and I'm starting to crush hard on her. I haven't had a crush in like 2 years. Unless I'm actively doing something else, she ends up slowly becoming the forefront of my thoughts. Otherwise she's always in the back somehow. I'm trying to keep centered and balanced but I can't maintain it. Beyond all the random places my mind goes, all I know is that I like it more when she's around.

The reason I like her is because she's beautiful, it's interesting to learn about her because she's so specific about random things, we can disagree respectfully on so much, she has the slightest southern accent, she's an amazing artist, she quotes SpongeBob lol, and most of all, she's capable.

A lot of times, the lead teacher will ask all of us to come up with a lesson plan. Nobody else really does anything, so I take the initiative and come up with stuff. She's the only one who comes up to me and asks how she can help and will contribute ideas to me so that we come up with something for the class. If I have to step out in the middle due to another obligation or someone pulls me aside etc, she immediately picks up the mantle and continues the lesson. If she sees me having computer trouble, she'll jump in with hers. We brainstorm really well together, bounce ideas nicely, just feels like really good compatibility when we put our minds together.

I can tell she likes me at least somewhat. Asks questions, laughs if I laugh, checks to see my reaction on things, and somehow ends up next to me if we're walking somewhere or sometimes even just sitting. We're always learning about each other.

She does have a bf, so I do remind myself to always remember that and not fall too hard. But I can't stop wanting her around and idk what to do.

Wat do

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