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Erectum posted...

We all start off unsure/inexperienced

some people never get through it. Doesn't help of they grew up in conservative households and they couldn't even ask their parents for dating advice, because their parents believed in getting a degree and then getting married.

Some people are also incredibly shy and don't make the first move like kissing. Me too hasn't made things easier for inexperienced men. Nobody wants to be seen a creep.

Trust me. There are many people out there who wonder how people do have sex on a regular basis, as well as companionship, which is probably the main thing.. Like we see it in the media and maybe through friends and aquaintances. But it's hard for them to fathom. It's sad really. I had so many opportunities in my life. in high school, I couldn't date. in college I had girls interested but I was so fucking shy about moving things forward and I didn't kiss. like I would text funny stuff and sometimes sexy stuff but was worried about looking like a creep and was wondering if I was ready for a relationship. I left a lot of girls frustrated.

of course people should absolutely should take the initiative. It only gets harder as you age if you don't date/don't have experience. Most people say they don't discriminated but let's be honest..
they have expectations and most have been in a relationship and know what they wants and they are less patient about wasting time. Not just sex, but romance and companionship and talking to them on the regular. If you are a shy introvert in your 30s who has zero dating experience, you need to get on it. ASAP. Fix whatever problems toy have with yourself and talk to women, even if it's platonically, you get experience and comfort and helps you out of your shell.

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There is something good in all seeming failures. You are not to see that now. Time will reveal it. Be patient.