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I wonder how many people who say "just work out", get your own place, etc. are actually good with women, or are in the same place and assuming these are the keys. Or they are just more normal then they realize. Plenty of schlubby guys with dead end careers are good with women. It really just comes down to being social enough and being willing to ask them out when you have a chance.I 'm decent looking, have a good career, my own house, am pretty "normal", but I don't really know how to socialize, and that's why I've not had many women in my life.

Working out is only a good idea if you go with the mindset that you're doing it for your general well-being and confidence. If that confidence eventually helps your social skills, that's good, but if you just get in shape and still can't socialize you're pretty limited. You have to be REALLY fit, which is years of effort, or have naturally good features, which is limited to luck with your genetics, or both, to have women coming up to you. And even then you still need to go to places that women are, so yeah.