LogFAQs > #955524877

codey posted...

You constantly bounce back and forth between "I support trans women and wish we were in a place where this wasn't an issue" and "What if they don't want to see a penis, huh!?"

Because what I want in the world and what is reality are two different things.

Until society changes and is ready to accept that penises are ok in, and maybe even expected, female areas then you have to consider the societal expectation of no penises in the female area, even if that may not be ideal or even right in the realm of trans considerations.

Perhaps unfortunately, but most women aren't going to just flip a switch in their brain and go "I'm okay with seeing penis in a female-only area". Especially if they've ever been traumatized by a penis.

As I said, unless it is made explicitly clear to expect to maybe see penis in an area where, in basically all of modern history, it had been no-penis the entire time before, then I'm going to err on the side of caution and say that the societal expectation takes precedence.