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So I basically met this girl from Bumble today. We chatted nicely for one day and she showed so much interest in me, even considering to meet in the middle of the night. And I think that was by far my biggest mistake of all. By not meeting right there and right then. She was hesitant to do so because her family doesn't want her leaving the house that late.

Instead, we settled to meet the next day evening because I'm dumb AF. The next problem was finding a shady spot to do the act. I have no car, my house has my parents living in it, so we could only do it outside.

Here's where I f***ed up again. I told her to meet at a park where we could do it in a public toilet. Except I didn't mention the last part on the toilet.

So we strolled all the way to the park while conversing. And then for another dumb reason I decided we should sit down at a bench in the park and continue TALKING.

Like maybe... half a hour passed by before I realized what a dumbass i am. I then hinted at her about hooking up already, but by this point she said she wasn't interested/ready. By now I'm just like WTF, then why did we even meet in the first place?!

I tried to hint again to the toilet by saying I wanted to buy a drink at the vending machine there. She seemed to finally get the hint and relented by telling me she can 'provide company'. At this point I honestly didn't know what she meant by 'company' but she followed me to the toilet. Now again, me being a complete utter dumbass for some reason, decides to turn around and GO TO A VENDING MACHINE instead for a drink. But then again, the toilet was really crowded for some damn reason so it was also kind of a hard no-go to drag her at that moment.

After this, we walked back home, just said our goodbyes. I tried to kiss her but didnt dare go for it. Only managed to hold her hand awkwardly. And she kinda made it clear she didn't want to meet again.

Really, looking back, there's so many things that went wrong here. This is my first time actually meeting up for casual sex so I honestly have no idea what I did wrong or right here but here's my personal judgment:

I didn't get straight to the point about having sex with her when we first met
I shouldn't have directed her to a bench to continue our conversation.
I shouldn't have chosen an effin' evening time to meet her at a park which was so damn crowded.
Halfway through the convo, I get overwhelmed and distracted, which kinda led to a lot of awkward moments where i wasn't listening to her talk leading to even more awkward silences.

CE, tell me what I did wrong. I feel like jumping off a building now. F*** I suck at life. Meanwhile this girl can go back to Bumble and get her next hookup guy within one second