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TopicAt what point is being forever alone a red flag?
philsov
05/03/21 4:58:11 PM
#34:


Snakebone99 posted...
Like I said, if she were to want to kiss...what the fuck would I even do?


There is a loooot that leads up into a kiss, usually. It can all happen in a blur, but there's a healthy amount of reciprocation and escalation, that happens before a kiss is even initiated. (also known as "putting on the moves" and "one thing leading to another")

Tell her you find some misc feature attractive and/or then do something physically mild such as a touch on the arm or briefly entering her personal bubble. Then, see what she does. Does she scoot away from you? Does she acknowledge the compliment? Does she poke you on the shoulder back?

Light flirting and casual, temporary physical contact out of you will hopefully lead to heavier flirting and more prolonged physical contact out of her and just keep up that momentum. If she shies away or doesn't reciprocate, she's either not feeling you or doesn't feel comfortable, just dial it back a little and she might come around on her time later in the evening (or bail, lmao)

If she wants to kiss, she's gonna enter into your bubble and there's going to be some reciprocated eye contact and a closeness before the lips even begin to pucker. Then... do your best, honestly. Just mimic what she does until you can figure it out. If you think you'd like to kiss, well, do similar.
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