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TopicAt what point is being forever alone a red flag?
philsov
05/03/21 4:36:26 PM
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Snakebone99 posted...
I'm not antisocial, bitter, or angry


Then you're not forever alone in the first place. QED.

Just self identify as a "late bloomer" and do your best. Considering the massive volume of emotional baggage your average competitor has, I'd say a newbie is a catch.

Get a hobby or join a volunteer organization. Make some new friends and be proactively social with them, and work on your social skills in the interim.

It's very possible you're displaying low-confident and self-deprecating behavior and that is what's making the girls shy away, rather than being a newbie in general. Part of it is "fake it until you make it", but there's minimal need to be like "omg the last date I went on was 15 years ago lmao" when you could instead just be "hey dollface, wanna grab a malt this friday?"
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