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I used to be a really fat guy. Over 400lbs. Now I'm 180lbs and I'm just the default American main character. Brown hair, brown eyes, average build and features.

All those decades spent as a fat guy took a toll though. Especially on my social life. It's hard to make friends when your a big sweaty mess, let alone something more.

So now I'm 40, I just look like an average guy, but I've never been in a relationship of any kind. I'm not antisocial, bitter, or angry, being super fat forced me to have a good sense of humor, and people usually enjoy hanging out with me. But that being a 40 and being forever alone thing is giant red flag for potential partners.

Even when I explain the weight loss, they don't want to deal with someone learning what they should've learned in high-school.

What do you think? How do you get out of the cycle of being alone, just because you've always been alone?