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Topic	Today I had the closest thing I've ever had to a date
No_U_L7 03/09/21 2:48:05 PM #70:	DarthAragorn posted... she actually came in late yesterday but when I asked her if she wanted to have lunch she said she had brought homework to do during lunch because it's midterms week and asked for a raincheck she doesn't work Tuesdays plus I stayed home sick amateur mistake, never pick a specific time to meet up (especially not on the day of), because then it becomes a binary situation where she either can or can't do it, all it takes is an assignment due date and you're having her say no. no isn't a big deal itself, however what happens then is you're getting her accustomed to saying no to you, the more she says no to you the easier it becomes to say no...you're essentially training her to decline your invitations it's better to frame it from a more adventurous view point that's more open ended. "hey i remember you saying you loved thai food, i drove by an intriguing looking new thai restaurant yesterday, we should check it out sometime this week" --- https://imgur.com/QPgN9 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:951524803] in Today I ha... [t:79332554]...</cite> <quote>DarthAragorn posted...</cite> <quote> she actually came in late yesterday but when I asked her if she wanted to have lunch she said she had brought homework to do during lunch because it's midterms week and asked for a raincheck she doesn't work Tuesdays plus I stayed home sick </quote> amateur mistake, never pick a specific time to meet up (especially not on the day of), because then it becomes a binary situation where she either can or can't do it, all it takes is an assignment due date and you're having her say no. no isn't a big deal itself, however what happens then is you're getting her accustomed to saying no to you, the more she says no to you the easier it becomes to say no...you're essentially training her to decline your invitations it's better to frame it from a more adventurous view point that's more open ended. "hey i remember you saying you loved thai food, i drove by an intriguing looking new thai restaurant yesterday, we should check it out sometime this week" --- https://imgur.com/QPgN9</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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