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That article pretty much sums up female psychology. There's no reason to be angry or upset about it, because it's how the brain is programmed. If you get turned down by a girl, just brush it off and move along. 90% of the time it's nothing personal against you...she just didn't feel it or you didn't let her feelings for you build strongly enough.

Ever watch how dogs build up to it? Male dog usually acts not interested at all and it's the female that comes to him once she's ready and she'll drive him nuts until he jumps on her. She picked him.

Granted, our psychology and process is definitely NOT the same as a dog; but there are some similarities you can observe. Doing so will teach you to only show so much interest in a female; but let her come to you. When just meeting and getting to know a girl, definitely don't ask her out. You might get lucky but the odds are in favor of her saying no. Get to know her and let the feelings build. Once you have a friendship and she shows sign(s) that she may want you for more than a friend you could try doing something nice for her; but DON'T stick around like you're waiting for a reward. Just do it and leave; tell her you were glad you were around to help but you gotta go. Psychologically this (can) multiply her attraction for you several times.

Picture the knight in shining armor cliche; Where the guy rides in, saves the girl, and leaves almost as quick as she can say thank you. She goes nuts thinking about him afterwards. That's one way you can approach getting a girl attracted to you if a situation allows.

Before anyone asks why cold approaches can work; it works because situations can be unique and there's always exceptions to the rules and we're all different. If a girl is right in the peak of that time of the month where she wants sex really bad and a decent looking guy comes along, she may be willing to go straight to the sex. Our desire for sex is a constant 8/10 or 9/10....when a girl is at her peak, her drive goes up to 11/10. That's where you can get lucky. ;)