LogFAQs > #949662150

I will admit I am VERY surprised by the honest responses in this topic. I always just assumed GameFaqs grew up and become stable adults. I guess the majority of the "normied" or whatever migrated over to Reddit or Social Media with age increase. So GameFaqs was left to the "underground" or whatever.

I don't know. I'm just surprised is all.

I've been talking to several users in private who have DM'ed me looking for advice, and I just don't have anything that is a mircale drug or whatever. Life isn't "6 minute abs" it takes work - but it all starts with self-love, self-respect. The world is NOT going to change, so you need to change yourself. However, when doing this one needs to realize that YOU are NOT the problem - it is the world that is the problem. It feeds you lies, and tells you to behave a certain way in order to suceed - but its all bullshit. If you do what the world tells you to do, you'll be forever a doormat.

It is a strange concept, because you are both accepting responsibility and displacing the blame at the same time. Typically when somebody gives somebody else the whole "self improvement" schtick, it involves accepting responsibility for one's actions, to look at one's life, and be like I am the reason I am unhappy - this is my fault. That is true to an extent, but it doesn't build self-esteem, it doesn't build self-worth, and is also frankly pathetic, beta, and unattractive.

Recognizing the the world has been feeding you lie. All that shit it tells you makes for a well adjusted, well respectful, successful, attracted person...it is all bullshit. If you recognize the BS for what it is, then you can actually change yourself for the better. Take responsibility for yourself, and legitimately self-improve, and take the steps necessary to give you the best chance at success/happiness...but don't ever blame yourself. Recognizing that nobody else is going to change for you, and you are going to have to rescue yourself is NOT the same as accepting responsibility for your current predicament. All you are doing is finally seeing the light. You are finally seeing the world as it is - in the terms of the Matrix you are taking the red pill.

You are NOT worthless. You have a lot to offer. You have talents that other people do not. These talents can and should make you money. You would make a great boyfriend, husband, and father! The only reason you don't have these things is because you did NOT know how to get them. You were not properly taught how to conquer the real world. You were fed lies by society, and you paid the price for it. However, NOT anymore. You are going to self-improve, get your shit together, and conquer life like a fucking alpha gorilla!

It starts with NOT giving a fuck about anyone but yourself (that's hyperbole, but always put yourself first, no matter what) - you are going to get in the gym and get yourself in shape, you are going to save your money, you are going spend that money on yourself to improve your image, and you are going to find out what you are good at, and find a way to make money out of it.

If you need to move someplace else in order to give yourself a fresh start, then that's what you are going to do. If you need to delete your Facebook and start over with new friends who don't know your oneself then that's what you are going to do. if you need to change your name to keep you from identifying w/ the failures of your past self, well fuck, that's why we have three names; drop your first or last and substitute it w/ your middle. If you are too physically meek, and need to learn how to fight to be confident around others, then by fucking golly you are going to join a jiu jitsu gym and fucking learn how to choke people out.

Just because you "shouldn't" have to go through all of this reinvention bullshit to be happy, doesn't mean that you won't. You still will go through it. You still will play society's petty game, and confirm to it's views of attractiveness to get ahead. You will do it - but you will also keep taking the red pill, and realize that society and its social structures are full of shit. You won't lose the soul of what makes you who you are, but you will be placing that soul into a new image, and you will be living a different life.

You will be happy. Go fucking do it Gamefaqs.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill

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