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Iwin2013 posted...

When you both live with families, it's hard to get enough alone time. I spend half my time caring for my disabled mother and brother, and she lives at home with her mother and two brothers. So we'd have to get a room half the time, and spend a weekend or two. And it's even harder to convince someone even though, you pay most of the bills that it's not your mother's house; She just lives with you cause of her medical issues.

Do you think maybe the frequency of sex could've been a negative sign of the relationship? Whether that's the cause of her being shitty and cheating, or a symptom of her being shitty. Anyway, I feel like having sex an average of twice a year with someone who's your new GF is the same frequency of what people would consider a dead bedroom after several years of marriage. It's possible that maybe the urge didn't come up but you know your body better than I do. Sounds like you enjoyed it. Just seems like a bad sign overall (unless both people really don't feel like banging ever).

Also if you really wanna fuck, you'll find a way. In the car, somewhere public, quickies when everyone's asleep, not giving a fuck and knowing you pay the bills so you're allowed to enjoy yourself in your own house, etc.

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