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Topic	Whats a good way to improve my social skills?
Muscles 12/19/20 12:27:24 AM #15:	Mead posted... I would recommend those events where you meet a bunch of people over the course of an hour That way youd get more comfortable and more confident introducing yourself and talking about what kind of person youre looking for. Im sure it would be awkward at first but eventually that ice would break. I'll have to try that after covid, I wonder if there's any around me or if I would have to go to the city Raddest_Chad posted... I'd say the best place to start right now with covid and all is to maybe hop on discord voice with groups of men and women to "hang out" playing stuff and do not try to strike up relationships with anybody female. Just keep it casual and be friends with everybody. Don't be that weird guy. It'll get you outta any awkward around women issues, hopefully. Dudes that only really associate with other dudes get this sorta strange, uncontrollable desperation vibe the odd time they are around chicks. Not that they are creepy guys or bad or anything, but it's just nervousness or something and it can sorta suck the soul outta the room depending. I'll have to look into that, but I have female friends so that hasn't been a problem,l. It's just really when I'm into a girl and start getting tongue tied around her that I feel it becomes a problem deoxxys posted... @Muscles As someone with mild autism I have had to practice social skills since they dont come to me naturally. First off, it is helpful to be in a job where you have to interact with customers to fight things like anxiety or shy behaviors. This is a good starter because you know you have to do it, its required and easy because all you have to do is be polite and helpful. Second thing is just watch a life improvement channel, like Charisma on Command: https://www.youtube.com/c/Charismaoncommand/videos There are very small things you need to do like how your body posture is and how you present yourself. I do work in a job where I interact with customers occasionally but my issue has never been conversating with customers/coworkers (at least not since my first job). Honestly it seems like my issues are specifically with asking girls out SunWuKung420 posted... Don't dwell and don't bogart conversation. Ask questions. Ohh trust me, I try to always keep any conversation on the other person --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies <cite>Muscles posted [p:948514096] in Whats a go... [t:79185339]...</cite> <quote>Mead posted... </cite> <quote>I would recommend those events where you meet a bunch of people over the course of an hour That way youd get more comfortable and more confident introducing yourself and talking about what kind of person youre looking for. Im sure it would be awkward at first but eventually that ice would break.</quote>I'll have to try that after covid, I wonder if there's any around me or if I would have to go to the city Raddest_Chad posted... </cite> <quote>I'd say the best place to start right now with covid and all is to maybe hop on discord voice with groups of men and women to "hang out" playing stuff and do not try to strike up relationships with anybody female. Just keep it casual and be friends with everybody. Don't be that weird guy. It'll get you outta any awkward around women issues, hopefully. Dudes that only really associate with other dudes get this sorta strange, uncontrollable desperation vibe the odd time they are around chicks. Not that they are creepy guys or bad or anything, but it's just nervousness or something and it can sorta suck the soul outta the room depending.</quote>I'll have to look into that, but I have female friends so that hasn't been a problem,l. It's just really when I'm into a girl and start getting tongue tied around her that I feel it becomes a problem deoxxys posted... </cite> <quote>@Muscles As someone with mild autism I have had to practice social skills since they dont come to me naturally. First off, it is helpful to be in a job where you have to interact with customers to fight things like anxiety or shy behaviors. This is a good starter because you know you have to do it, its required and easy because all you have to do is be polite and helpful. Second thing is just watch a life improvement channel, like Charisma on Command: https://www.youtube.com/c/Charismaoncommand/videos There are very small things you need to do like how your body posture is and how you present yourself.</quote>I do work in a job where I interact with customers occasionally but my issue has never been conversating with customers/coworkers (at least not since my first job). Honestly it seems like my issues are specifically with asking girls out SunWuKung420 posted... </cite> <quote>Don't dwell and don't bogart conversation. Ask questions.</quote>Ohh trust me, I try to always keep any conversation on the other person --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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