LogFAQs > #948383970

Sometimes in a relationship, especially the longer you've been with someone, one of the partners does something they are not suppose to do or stops doing something they are suppose to be doing. Then the other person starts to resent them or build up animosity toward them. As this resentment and animosity builds it turns into disgust and hatred, so you start looking for other options or ways out.

When you got married you had no idea what things would be like later in life. You didn't know your wife would max out the credit cards and spiral you into tremendous amounts of debt. (that she hid from you) She used to go to the gym and workout and she looked great. Then after marriage she decided she didn't need to go to the gym because she got her man. She proceeds to gain 50 pounds and become fat and lazy, she stops cleaning and doing household chores.

Perhaps the husband works long days and comes home to screaming kids and a nagging wife so he starts drinking a couple beers a night, that turns into a six pack a night, turns into goes straight to the bar after work come home drunk.....

People change and its not always for the better.