LogFAQs > #947482817

Lokarin posted...

The current dating meta is too sex focused.

Wouldn't want to so much as kiss, either.

Think about it this way: If you don't want to have sex with a transwoman, would you be ok with a transman

Let me put it this way: If there's ANY doubt at all, any possible "asterisk" regarding the gender of the person I'm potentially dating, in either direction, I'd nope the fuck out of that situation.

Firewerx posted...

If I said to you I felt uncomfortable about the idea of dating a trans woman and wouldn't do it personally because I found it difficult to accept them as genuinely female -- but had no opinion whatsoever about anyone else's choice to do so, and saw no point in denying transgendered people the same rights as anyone else of their self-identified gender -- would you nevertheless describe that as hating them?

That's where I am, too.