I did not have an easy early life. My mother had mental problems and moved from project to project every 3 months for the first 11 years of my life. She did not feed me or my brother, nor ever touched us. I lived in the poorest places through the 70's basically and saw how many kids (not just me and my brother, lived.
So to me, children are a responsibility, that I think parents need to prioritize, and you should not be allowed to have them UNLESS you are prepared to do so. Abortion is actually a good thing and prefered in my opinion, over giving birth to a child who isn't going to have anyone there to actually care for them and ensure they have a safe/secure life.
I'm of the personal opinion that abortion should be legal, but that IF you have an abortion, you should have your tubes tied (reversable) in the process, so it does not happen again. Exceptions of course for rape, where it was not the womans choice (which I realize could be abused).
I am very against just basically using abortion as a form of birth control and just getting them over and over again, that is crazy as well, but I do think a woman should have control over her own body and not be required to have a baby, especially if the abortion can be done (and it should be made easy to do) before 5 months.
I think the whole debate is ridiculous and a compromise should be easy to come up with. Abortions for the first 4-5 months, but offer to have a surgery in the process to prevent future pregnancy until the woman actually wants to get pregnant (Which is obviously not at that point if she wants an abortion). Yes it puts it on the woman (honestly I'm pro, snipping all guys at puberty (also reversable) to prevent pregnancies by accident as well, but that is forcing a surgery on someone.
IF a woman is getting an abortion, your already violating her body to do that, so tying the tubes isn't really invasive at that point (Still should not be done without consent, but, predicating the abortion on having that done (especially if it's the second abortion from one person), means you have to give consent basically to get the abortion.
Getting abortion again and again is very rarely thing to happen because of how traumatic it is for the body and brain. It's a shit talking point of Bible thumper. In fact, women who get repeated abortions usually come from Bible thumper families where they want to have a boy regardless of the mother's wish and they see women as breeding tubes and daily servant.