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TopicYour girlfriend asks if you're up for having a foursome with her and her friends
UnfairRepresent
07/18/20 3:57:46 PM
#21:


ZeroX91 posted...
Because if she is open to sex with someone else its clear the relationship isnt all that important to her


That's a non sequitur.

WTF does being open to new ideas sexually have to do with how importantly she regards your relationship?

Like the other guy you're sole argument is to pretend you're not involved in this at all and be then be mad about it. You're there too. She's having sex with you. And the question is being raised hanging on your consent.

It's like being mad if your girlfriend asks if you want chocolate cake with her friends and you go "I'd dump her for not knowing I don't like chocolate cake and for her being open to eating chocolate cake with someone else!"

She's eating it with you.

, thats 100% only going to cause trust issues and lead to shit blowing up down the line.


I think you got it backwards.

Being angry and dumping people for communication + asking questions about things is going to cause trust issues and lead to shit blowing up down the line.

Intentionally or not you're basically saying you'd rather your partner be dishonest with you than be honest and say something you don't approve of.

That's going to end badly down the line.

You've intentionally or not trained your girlfriend to not be honest about what she really thinks for fear that you will flip out and dump her on the spot for wrongthink. That ain't healthy.
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