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TopicIdk why all my "friends" flake or don't make an effort to see me
clyde_frog
06/07/20 5:53:16 AM
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ReDaZnDraGoN97 posted...
It means being comfortable enough with yourself that you dont need anybody else.

The hardest lesson I have learned is friends come and go. I was ones like you trust me but eventually I learned a majority of friends are expendable.

But thats the thing. Over the course of the last 9 months in the city I currently live it Ive been perfectly content with just having my gf and not really any friends to hang out with. Even after my gf and I broke up I was ok with being alone and working on schoolwork. But after 3 months of quarantine I got the itch to come down and see people that I know.

So Im ok with being by myself for awhile, but I dont like it to be a permanent thing. I really missed my friends but it didn't seem like the feeing was mutual.

Also I have really bad social anxiety when Im out in public by myself, but I am completely normal when I have friends or a posse with me. Would medication help with that? Like going to a bar by myself or trying to meet new people just by myself is one of my biggest fears. But if I have one other person I know with me its an enjoyable experience.

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