LogFAQs > #938411979

Since Ive been married Ive noticed a slight uptick in people asking if we are ever planning on having children. No, were not, but heres the thing. It isnt just a simple oh, I hate kids, because I really dont. In fact they can be rather fascinating little creatures, many wise beyond their years. Nor is it about lack of sleep or money spent or anything that shallow. The truth is they simply dont bring me joy on a soul level. I know a lot of people love the idea of creating this little life and nurturing it and watching it grow, and thats great for them if thats what they want, but it just doesnt do anything for me. I dont possess those instincts. Unfortunately, saying so in todays world will quickly get you labeled as some sort of villain, but I like to think Im mature and self-aware enough to know fatherhood isnt for me. I suspect a lot of people probably feel the same way but cave in to societal pressure and the image of what a family is supposed to look like. But family takes many forms and at the end of the day its all about love, and whether that love is shared between two people or five or ten shouldnt really be up for judgment.

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Clairvoyant, paranormal enthusiast, author. Not a new age hipster, just a normal guy who sees stuff.