LogFAQs > #937576568

i've always figured the real reason men care about this (and make no mistake, a *lot* of men care about this to at least some extent, some are just smart enough not to wear it on their sleeve, or mature enough to 'get over it') was a combination of jealousy that they're only getting to be a part of relationships with long-term responsibilities and not the 'free fun times' they imagine happening in youth, and fear that they're being used for attributes that really have nothing to do with attraction. attributes like wealth.

i think a lot of that concern comes from the broader perception they don't really have a lot of value as people.

i would suggest those men practice better hygiene, work out, and ask a platonic female friend to help them dress better. not only will they find that they can still have relationships on whatever terms they want once they do so, but also they won't be afraid they're being used.

i would also suggest they not get involved with women who are significantly less successful. a partner can't use you for assets they already have!

but don't subject the women in your life to your own insecurities.

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