LogFAQs > #934931981

There are so many ways this can be viewed, most have been touched upon.

- A woman/man wants to be with someone experienced. But there are some who don't mind teaching/guiding, as long as that conversation happens.
- Men talk about wanting xyz in terms of a relationship but don't actually do anything to make those wants a reality.
- Mental road block. At 40 years old, values and what is important change.
- If you are with someone but can't openly talk about sex or sexual preferences to better understand each other, this area of life won't get to where you want it to be.
- This label of "virgin" becomes an insecurity preventing someone from making that connection. Like wondering if your experienced partner will compare your newly acquired skills to previous sex partners.
- Different views. Some people view sex as a need and intimate acts of cuddling are more personal than sex. Some also don't view sex as a "leveling up" achievement but a deeper connection that isn't made with just anyone.

Everyone has their own reason why they might not have had that connection yet. Some of these posted claims of religion or being just creepy could be true. But whatever the reason, who are we to judge?