| Topic List | Page List: 1 |
|---|---|
| Topic | I'm turning 37 and still a virgin |
| SableWolfAngel 12/13/19 2:18:24 AM #74: | RickyTheBAWSE posted... I definitely want sex for lustful purposes, but it is pretty awesome to actually love that person, too. lmao but still, lust is default. So, it's like a compelling force? I totally agree. Being a hooker would be awesome! yillin posted... In all honesty, I'm not driven by sex at all. I am driven by companionship. I am a 34 male btw. When I was 18 I nabbed a 16 year old gf. ofc we broke up, but when I was 22 I got a girl who was also 22. We stayed together for 6 years but it was never meant to be because of a catastrophe that happened around year 2 or 3. Now I'm with my wife and we are happy. Sex is good but it isn't the striving goal in our relationship. There is something to measurably happy about having a companion who you can talk to, laugh with, experience events with. At the end of the day, the sex is a bonus. But it should never be the only thing. And in my situation the sex is because of love. I love her and thus want to have the close personal connection. You know, my boyfriend is extremely similar. He's not much of a horndog or anything like that, but he definitely loves having a companion to share his life with. I think he views sex as a bonus, too. Maybe it's immaturity or personality, but I'm much more focused on sex. Like, I really like it and tend to put a lot of emphasis on its importance to me and how much I want to do it. It's a bit of a point of contention in our relationship, but not all the time. I don't know if I'll ever change my attitude, but I know his companionship is more important to me than just random hookups. --- ... Copied to Clipboard! |
| Topic List | Page List: 1 |