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TopicAnybody got any tips for becoming ok with feeling unwanted (for men)
mattnd2007
12/09/19 11:24:35 AM
#35:


You misunderstand. Love not as in romantic love. Like real love.

Acceptance of self. I speak from years of experience.

Spent most of my life since middle school as my harshest critic. My biggest bully. I'm way more mean to myself than anyone else on the face of the Earth.

Any time I didn't get a good enough grade. Any time I embarrassed myself by doing something awkward. Etc.

"This is why no one will ever love you" "you think you're so smart but you're actually a dumb shit" "your friends aren't really your friends, they just feel bad for you and are stuck with you"

These are the kinds of thoughts I deal with on the daily. For years. I'm only finally realizing that none of those are true.


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