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Topic	Anybody got any tips for becoming ok with feeling unwanted (for men)
KYOJIROKAGENUMA 12/09/19 5:08:07 AM #16:	berlyman101 posted... I think your road to love, humility, and kindness is a shorter road than a life of brooding and solipsism. Even people who have accomplished great things in solitude had a goal based in some sort of love for people and the things we do or need. So, your goal is ridiculous and conceited. That in itself is far from irredeemable but know that you may have much to offer yourself and the world if you simply are not so short-sighted. You can change everything for the better if you confront your pride and understand just a bit how it is constricting you. @berlyman101 Thank you for you response. I do feel like you might have is misunderstood my goals here. First off, I am a social worker, so I do feel like directly contribute to both the community and my world, and thus I feel like my desired "life of brooding and solipsism" is really just me being a self-realized person. I mean I know my limits and my weakness , and I think (especially at the age of 30), that some of the positive things you said aren't true, and that I may need to be mature and realize what is actually available. I don't know how my quest for solidarity conceited, and I question why you think I have anything to offer myself. I would think that I am letting my pride go in ADMITTING that I am a lesser person, and acclimate my life around that. Again, I don't mean to be confrontational, but I'm confused as to how you would draw my desire to withdraw do to inadequacy within myself to me being conceited. I feel kinda liberated finally being honest with how I truly feel. I don't believe all of us are created equally, so it stands to reason that some of may not have a road to love. I think I have a lot of humility by talking about my limitations. And I fail to see how I lack kindness (except to maybe myself) I hope you realize by the size of my post how much I appreciate you response. --- Kill anyone who gets in the way... Actually nevermind that... JUST KILL EVERYONE! - Kyojiro Kagenuma - WoTS 2 PSN:kingmalak <cite>KYOJIROKAGENUMA posted [p:931313407] in Anybody go... [t:78239142]...</cite> <quote>berlyman101 posted... </cite> <quote>I think your road to love, humility, and kindness is a shorter road than a life of brooding and solipsism. Even people who have accomplished great things in solitude had a goal based in some sort of love for people and the things we do or need. So, your goal is ridiculous and conceited. That in itself is far from irredeemable but know that you may have much to offer yourself and the world if you simply are not so short-sighted. You can change everything for the better if you confront your pride and understand just a bit how it is constricting you.</quote> @berlyman101 Thank you for you response. I do feel like you might have is misunderstood my goals here. First off, I am a social worker, so I do feel like directly contribute to both the community and my world, and thus I feel like my desired "life of brooding and solipsism" is really just me being a self-realized person. I mean I know my limits and my weakness , and I think (especially at the age of 30), that some of the positive things you said aren't true, and that I may need to be mature and realize what is actually available. I don't know how my quest for solidarity conceited, and I question why you think I have anything to offer myself. I would think that I am letting my pride go in ADMITTING that I am a lesser person, and acclimate my life around that. Again, I don't mean to be confrontational, but I'm confused as to how you would draw my desire to withdraw do to inadequacy within myself to me being conceited. I feel kinda liberated finally being honest with how I truly feel. I don't believe all of us are created equally, so it stands to reason that some of may not have a road to love. I think I have a lot of humility by talking about my limitations. And I fail to see how I lack kindness (except to maybe myself) I hope you realize by the size of my post how much I appreciate you response. --- Kill anyone who gets in the way... Actually nevermind that... JUST KILL EVERYONE! - Kyojiro Kagenuma - WoTS 2 PSN:kingmalak</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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