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Topic	Found out today that one of my exes broke up with her boyfriend, it was funny.
ClockworkHare 10/26/19 2:30:32 AM #21:	Rypt posted... ClockworkHare posted... Rypt posted... also idk why they broke up, just surprised because i thought it was a match made in heaven lol So, as far as you know, there's a possibility that either one of them was responsible for them drifting apart. Your OP makes the presumption that the new man must have dropped the ball somehow since their relationship did not live up to expectations. But isn't it just as possible that your ex may have messed up the relationship as well? Maybe even driving the guy away? Like you said, you don't actually know what happened. Lol well even if she did, they made it sound like he was there for her no matter what and accepted her for whoever she was. I mean, he was perfect after all. My point is: Unless the other guy metaphorically shit in your cornflakes by talking down to you and rubbing their relationship in your face, you wouldn't really have a valid reason to hate him. He would just be the new guy. If he didn't actually do anything to you personally, hating on him is out-of-bounds for you as an ex...and frankly as a husband. It would convey that you still see your exgf as yours, which apparently she's not. That's not what you want, right? I'm not pointing that out to discourage you from pursuing her again. I'm telling you, for someone's who says he's married, you sound like you're putting a bit too much value in someone who's supposed to be a forgettable ex. And besides, you're married, she's not. Do you really need to know anything else about her now...? My message is not "leave her alone, dude ". It's "forget about her ass " for your own sake and your wife's. And tell your mom to butt the fuck out. --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. https://i.imgtc.com/k1IlqEz.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/p1ooHhw.png <cite>ClockworkHare posted [p:929253440] in Found out ... [t:78111990]...</cite> <quote>Rypt posted...</cite> <quote>ClockworkHare posted...</cite> <quote>Rypt posted...</cite> <quote>also idk why they broke up, just surprised because i thought it was a match made in heaven lol</quote> So, as far as you know, there's a possibility that either one of them was responsible for them drifting apart. Your OP makes the presumption that the new man must have dropped the ball somehow since their relationship did not live up to expectations. But isn't it just as possible that your ex may have messed up the relationship as well? Maybe even driving the guy away? Like you said, you don't actually know what happened.</quote> Lol well even if she did, they made it sound like he was there for her no matter what and accepted her for whoever she was. I mean, he was perfect after all.</quote> My point is: Unless the other guy metaphorically shit in your cornflakes by talking down to you and rubbing their relationship in your face, you wouldn't really have a valid reason to hate him. He would just be the new guy. If he didn't actually do anything to you personally, hating on him is out-of-bounds for you as an ex...and frankly as a husband. It would convey that you still see your exgf as yours, which apparently she's not. That's not what you want, right? I'm not pointing that out to discourage you from pursuing her again. I'm telling you, for someone's who says he's married, you sound like you're putting a bit too much value in someone who's supposed to be a forgettable ex. And besides, you're married, she's not. Do you really need to know anything else about her now...? My message is not "leave her alone, dude ". It's "forget about her ass " for your own sake and your wife's. And tell your mom to butt the fuck out. --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. https://i.imgtc.com/k1IlqEz.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/p1ooHhw.png</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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