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That happened with this chick I was seeing; rewind 4 months ago...I met this girl in a class that I take. I used to help her a LOT in the class to the point where I was basically her tutor. There was definitely some chemistry and I noticed some indicators of interest. Always smiling, laughing, saying thank you. So...I asked her out, and she actually accepted.

Fast forward a few weeks...and it's final exam time. We go on a date shortly before class ended (went well) and things are going well. We talked about cuddling in bed on the next day, and she was all for it...practically excited for it. And I was literally shaking in excitement, trying not to scream.

The day before the exam, she asked me to not come into class so that she could have the highest grade point average in the class which would be important for the internship she is trying to get into. In this class, you get 5 points added as extra credit if you have perfect attendance. I understood and oblidged. I'm trying to get a 4.0 GPA but I don't need this class to make that happen. Meanwhile our next date (at her college dorm room) would be the following week.

The next day...we took the final exam (we both did well) and she gave me a big hug when she passed. All was very well. Really felt the butterflies in my stomach. But unfortunately things took a nose dive from there.

Since then she had completely stopped responding to my messages. Not even a reasons to my "good morning" text. On Facebook she has "seen" the message, but no reply. She has posted several statuses too. That date at her dorm? Came and went. Did not go because she wasn't replying.

Her birthday was in August. I wrote on her wall wishing her a happy birthday, all she did was "like" it. To others she commented. She couldn't leave a measly comment?

Fast forward to last week...she is now "in a relationship" on Facebook. One person even commented "you guys finally made it official?" I was ENRAGED. I had no idea, and she could have told me before I gave up my 5 extra credit points.

What REALLY angers me is that she promised cuddling in bed. It wasn't "in the air" or a "possibility", it was a guarantee. I know she is in a relationship now, but she made that promise when we were boyfriend/girlfriend. In my opinion, I should be grandfathered in. When AT&T did away with unlimited data, the existing customers that already had it could keep it. It's absolutely not fair.

I should message her and tell her that she made a promise to me. Not saying it has to be more than like 30 minutes, but I feel entitled to it because it was a promise.
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