Jesus fucking Christ you're so jaded you can't even realize that you don't have to stay with a cheating spouse to remain in a child's life.
So, they get a divorce, and what? You think he'll get custody? You think she's going to let him see the child? You think she isn't going to make up a bunch of shit about him to tell the kid?
I'm not jaded. You're extremely naive.
The kid would go with the primary caretaker, as they should, and the cheating and lying would be taken into account during the division of assets and custody dispute, as it should be. Things aren't nearly as biased against men as some might think. The issue is that women in our society are usually the primary caretakers and the residue from when that was enforced heavily by society is hard to overcome in terms of the actual child rearing arrangements and then in the courts.
No, the kid would go to the mom. Period. End of story. Her cheating and lying would be deemed irrelevant.
That you are either oblivious or willfully ignorant of these facts is not surprising to me in the least.
Sounds like you needed a better lawyer. ---
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