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Topic	Best friend wanted to date, I said no, I'm afraid now
Lost_All_Senses 08/17/19 6:46:03 PM #26:	metallica846 posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... Some people can chill around the cake and see if that cake knows where other good cake is that you can eat. People who can't be friends with hot likable chicks are short sighted as fuck Well they are cuddling, going on dates, and sleeping over. That's progressed past friend shit. She/He? is leading him on for all the benefits of a SO without reciprocating, being selfish AF. Not short sighted to ditch TC and find someone who will appreciate the effort this person seems to be putting in. I'd love to hear the reasons why you would want someone in your bed and your life so much only to sideline him. Like you couldn't tell or chose not to that homie might catch feelings? How would he feel when you start bringing another dude in to the equation? Derp. I thought you were generalizing it in your last post. So my bad on that, cause that's what I was talking about. But I came to a point in my life where I feel my straight forward honesty is enough. Like if he told him he just wanted to keep things the same and that his friend can decide if that's something he wants to do or not. After that, you don't gotta worry about what they're thinking when you go about other options. If they become an obstacle then you tell them they obviously can't be cool with just being friends. And THATS where you end it. But why not try having all the cakes and being honest about it first? He can't control if his friend decides to keep presuing something he was told he can't have. I personally can feel guilt free doing this but hey, I understand everyone has their own version of guilt --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:926196912] in Best frien... [t:77945706]...</cite> <quote>metallica846 posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Some people can chill around the cake and see if that cake knows where other good cake is that you can eat. People who can't be friends with hot likable chicks are short sighted as fuck</quote> Well they are cuddling, going on dates, and sleeping over. That's progressed past friend shit. She/He? is leading him on for all the benefits of a SO without reciprocating, being selfish AF. Not short sighted to ditch TC and find someone who will appreciate the effort this person seems to be putting in. I'd love to hear the reasons why you would want someone in your bed and your life so much only to sideline him. Like you couldn't tell or chose not to that homie might catch feelings? How would he feel when you start bringing another dude in to the equation? Derp. </quote> I thought you were generalizing it in your last post. So my bad on that, cause that's what I was talking about. But I came to a point in my life where I feel my straight forward honesty is enough. Like if he told him he just wanted to keep things the same and that his friend can decide if that's something he wants to do or not. After that, you don't gotta worry about what they're thinking when you go about other options. If they become an obstacle then you tell them they obviously can't be cool with just being friends. And THATS where you end it. But why not try having all the cakes and being honest about it first? He can't control if his friend decides to keep presuing something he was told he can't have. I personally can feel guilt free doing this but hey, I understand everyone has their own version of guilt --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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